Sunday, January 31, 2010
Comment About Sex & A Course in Miracles
Hi Nick, I just wanted to share a report. I realized today that I have no idea how The Course views sex. All I know is that its always created a huge mess in my life and is a big part of my current problems. So, I got to go into my guilt mode today and worked a lot on forgiveness! I decided to do some research and I found an article that spoke of how sex actually creates separation and often anger because of the "false union". I feel so much clearer on what I have been projecting. I understand more how quickly things went downhill in my marriage as well. So much more to learn.....
Nick's comment: I also address sex in my book What Happens When You Let God. Remember, sex is just a function of the body. It is not spiritual, like anything of this world. If you have it fine, if you don't fine too.
Through offering everything to Spirit, as you transform so is your sexual desires. That does not mean you wont have it or that you won't enjoy it, but that you wont be needy or attached to it. You see it for what it is, just a thing bodies do.
Remember, you are not here to try to control your desires, you simply offer them to the Holy Spirit for transformation. Then there is no need to control anything. Sex simply becomes more like a preference. And if the time comes when it is no longer needed, that would be a natural transformative process for you where you feel you are not really giving up anything. No sacrifice, nor you feel deprive. Again, just keep doing your forgiveness process to whatever it is that is coming up, and let the Holy Spirit handle the details for you. It is that simple!
Remember to order a copy of Nick's book What Happens When You Let God at: www.TruthAndMiracles.com or www.WhatHappensWhenYouLetGod.com
And to hire Nick to speak at your church, college or corporate event, simply visit: www.NickArandesPomo.com
Nick's comment: I also address sex in my book What Happens When You Let God. Remember, sex is just a function of the body. It is not spiritual, like anything of this world. If you have it fine, if you don't fine too.
Through offering everything to Spirit, as you transform so is your sexual desires. That does not mean you wont have it or that you won't enjoy it, but that you wont be needy or attached to it. You see it for what it is, just a thing bodies do.
Remember, you are not here to try to control your desires, you simply offer them to the Holy Spirit for transformation. Then there is no need to control anything. Sex simply becomes more like a preference. And if the time comes when it is no longer needed, that would be a natural transformative process for you where you feel you are not really giving up anything. No sacrifice, nor you feel deprive. Again, just keep doing your forgiveness process to whatever it is that is coming up, and let the Holy Spirit handle the details for you. It is that simple!
Remember to order a copy of Nick's book What Happens When You Let God at: www.TruthAndMiracles.com or www.WhatHappensWhenYouLetGod.com
And to hire Nick to speak at your church, college or corporate event, simply visit: www.NickArandesPomo.com


"What Happens When You Let
God is a wonderfully down to earth
sharing of the lived wisdom of A Course in
Miracles. Nick Arandes is a teacher and
student of the Course who
really walks his talk and it shows! Full
of love and encouragement, humor and insight,
we highly recommend this to
anyone who wants to experience what
happens when you let God." -Nouk Sanchez and
Tomas Vieira, Authors of Take Me To
Truth, Undoing the Ego www.takemetotruth.com
"Through What Happens When
You Let God, author Nick Arandes gives
us all the gift of marrying A Course in Miracles
with practical application. Intimately sharing from
his own stories of challenge, Nick leads
the reader through the dark tunnels of struggle to
remember the hope which thrives within
and beyond each obstacle to peace. What Happens
When You Let God is a comprehensive and
prolific tool for applying A Course in
Miracles to every stone the road of life
may hurl. Thank you Nick for your willingness to
share and lead the way." Pamela Silberman:
Author of Simply Being: One Year with Spirit
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"NICK, Your Book, "What
Happens When You Let God" is SUPER!
Never have I seen so much Given in such a Loving,
Caring Way. It is so comprehensive in providing
core themes of A Course IN Miracles...it
deserves to be a MUST Reading for anyone
who wants to go beyond the symbols, concepts and
words to the Light and Love of your own Experiences
so Generously shared for all. THANK YOU FRIEND!"
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students. I read 3 or 4 pages of your book at
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" Nick, just to let you know that I
have 6 more pages to read of your book.
It has been excellent and a real
down-to-earth approach to ACIM. Talk
about "when the student is ready". First, it was
Nouk and Thomas' book, then Gary Renard's 2 books
and then yours. Many thanks," Pat Hendy
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