Sunday, January 31, 2010

Comment About Sex & A Course in Miracles

Hi Nick, I just wanted to share a report. I realized today that I have no idea how The Course views sex. All I know is that its always created a huge mess in my life and is a big part of my current problems. So, I got to go into my guilt mode today and worked a lot on forgiveness! I decided to do some research and I found an article that spoke of how sex actually creates separation and often anger because of the "false union". I feel so much clearer on what I have been projecting. I understand more how quickly things went downhill in my marriage as well. So much more to learn.....


Nick's comment: I also address sex in my book What Happens When You Let God. Remember, sex is just a function of the body. It is not spiritual, like anything of this world. If you have it fine, if you don't fine too.

Through offering everything to Spirit, as you transform so is your sexual desires. That does not mean you wont have it or that you won't enjoy it, but that you wont be needy or attached to it. You see it for what it is, just a thing bodies do.

Remember, you are not here to try to control your desires, you simply offer them to the Holy Spirit for transformation. Then there is no need to control anything. Sex simply becomes more like a preference. And if the time comes when it is no longer needed, that would be a natural transformative process for you where you feel you are not really giving up anything. No sacrifice, nor you feel deprive. Again, just keep doing your forgiveness process to whatever it is that is coming up, and let the Holy Spirit handle the details for you. It is that simple!

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